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[sythyry]

Addenda

This is part of this poll, except you can't edit polls, so it's a separate poll.

To remind you: sharp = straight or gay or cisaffectionate or transaffectionate or some such. generous = bi and libertine and such -- not sharp.

[Poll #1457651]

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[gavinfox.livejournal.com]

With me, because I am very generous, here is a hypothetical that would illustrate how I work with regards to this. I am going to use Prime terms to describe this, because I think it works well that way.

Lets say that I am a cani male (not too far off the mark, in some ways.) Lets say that I was going through a time in my life where I was feeling relatively intimidated by, oh I dont know, Gormorror, and was wary of being intimate with one. Lets say that I am on, oh I don't know, a Rassimel kick for the time being. So if a beautiful Rassimel girl comes up and shows interest in me, and we are about to be intimate, and she stops me and says, "oh before we start, there is something you should know. I am really gormorror but am wearing Cloak tonight." I would probably happily continue. But if she DOESN'T do that, and I discover later (either from her or from someone else, it doesn't matter), that the Rassimel girl I was with was really Gormorror, I would be VERY angry! Not because I slept with a Gormorror when I was uneasy about them, but because I was deceived!