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[sythyry]

Victory! [16 Oix 4261]

Yay!

I got Ilottat back!

I orrenned over to his apartment, and we had a very long and squirmy-uncomfortable talk, and I made a few promises, and ...

We're back together!

And yes, makeup sex is quite yummy.

The Promises

1. I won't use words like "traff" or "transaffectionate" to or about him.
2. I won't go to Across Saga any more.
3. I'll do Flooosh's trick of establishing my Orren alternate identity as a publicly-acceptable mistress that Ilottat can be seen in public with.
4. Ilottat will go out in public with me sometimes.
5. I'll ... um ... never mind exactly what. Whenever Ilottat asks. But he won't ask when I'm too tired or too full or something.
6. I'll stop calling myself traff so much and won't be political about it.
7. I won't be looking for any more lovers.
8. He'll try to be nicer to me, even when I look like a Zi Ri and we're in public.

I figure I'll go to Across Saga in Rassimel shape and that won't disturb him. After all, if my Orren identity is suitably non-traff for him to be seen in public with, my Rassimel identity will be suitably non-me to satisfy anyone.

The Pornography

He didn't mention the pornography. Or the clothes, but he might not have remembered those or maybe he thinks they just vanished. [As when a creation spell expires. -bb] I'm not sure what I should do.

[Poll #613242]

Comments

[redbird]

You, and we, know that you are just sharing snacks with friends.

Ilottat seems to be uncomfortable with your doing so, either because he doesn't believe other people could resist your charms, or for some other reason to do with the place itself.

The difficulty isn't that you told him you wouldn't have other lovers--it's that you told him you wouldn't go to Across Saga. Even if you neither flirt with nor touch anyone else there, he's likely to be angry if he finds out you set foot in the place.

[sythyry.livejournal.com]

How could he find out? He doesn't talk to traff people!

[spotweld.livejournal.com]

He doesn't, but who ever he is when he's not being himself... might.

[collie13.livejournal.com]

Um, I believe it was you yourself, dear Zi Ri, who pointed out everyone knows you go there -- and not all of them can be traff, so at least some of them may be suitable conversational companions for your Orren lover. Plus, you have shown a charming inclination to guiltily unburden yourself by blurting out all your secrets to Illotat when you're trying to make up with him. ;)