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[sythyry]

Victory! [16 Oix 4261]

Yay!

I got Ilottat back!

I orrenned over to his apartment, and we had a very long and squirmy-uncomfortable talk, and I made a few promises, and ...

We're back together!

And yes, makeup sex is quite yummy.

The Promises

1. I won't use words like "traff" or "transaffectionate" to or about him.
2. I won't go to Across Saga any more.
3. I'll do Flooosh's trick of establishing my Orren alternate identity as a publicly-acceptable mistress that Ilottat can be seen in public with.
4. Ilottat will go out in public with me sometimes.
5. I'll ... um ... never mind exactly what. Whenever Ilottat asks. But he won't ask when I'm too tired or too full or something.
6. I'll stop calling myself traff so much and won't be political about it.
7. I won't be looking for any more lovers.
8. He'll try to be nicer to me, even when I look like a Zi Ri and we're in public.

I figure I'll go to Across Saga in Rassimel shape and that won't disturb him. After all, if my Orren identity is suitably non-traff for him to be seen in public with, my Rassimel identity will be suitably non-me to satisfy anyone.

The Pornography

He didn't mention the pornography. Or the clothes, but he might not have remembered those or maybe he thinks they just vanished. [As when a creation spell expires. -bb] I'm not sure what I should do.

[Poll #613242]

Comments

[terrycloth.livejournal.com]

It really boils down to:
(a) Sythyry won't be publically traff.
(1) Ilottat will associate with Sythyry in public.

(b) Sythyry'll make zir orren form somewhat more solidified.
(2) Ilottat will have 'her' as a real mistress.

(c) Sythyry won't sleep around.
(3) Presumably, Ilottat is already not sleeping around.

Which is almost fair. (a) is a prerequisite for (1), (b) is a prerequisite for (2), and (c) is a normal realtionship thing.

There's other stuff, but zie has no intention of following through on them, so it doesn't matter.

...

I give it a week.

[yotogi.livejournal.com]

I wish I could disagree with you, but... this logic (and historical precedent) is unassailable.

[ladyperegrine.livejournal.com]

You're good! Thanks for the explanation. :-)

A week? I give it a month, give or take.

[collie13.livejournal.com]

Mm... okay, I'll bet on 2 weeks, how's that? ;)

Re the porn, keep it. It'll make a nice gift for later, Sythyry, should Illotat actually keep up his end of the deal. Er... no pun intended, sorry.